Why must she spoil my sahur again..?
In fact, she hurt my emotions for the first time when arguing bout you. my heart was gonna cry out a few times. i jz felt cheated and confused. i din noe my mum is like tt.
jz now, she said tt she has given up on u and she doesnt want to see u anymore. she doesnt wanna argue bout it.
2 min later, she started talking about it again and shooting me.
she said that,
1) u don respect my family.
2) u alwys put ur family as priority,in terms of respect.
3) u don talk about in conversations w her.
after all this, she felt like she was hurt instead.
LOL
then i said, its bcz she is afraid of u.
1) my mum doesnt look at the person when she speaks.
2) my mum would give the cold feeling.
3) i duno how much my mum loves u.
BUT she said,
1) "I hv given her 2 gifts! Al-Quran and telekong. Doesnt it means tt i like her? if parents give presents to the partner, means they like her alot! "
2) "this is my type, she has to accept it. i don look at a person when i talk. my mum-in-law doesnt look a person when she talks too. why is she complaining? jz accept it and carry on doing normal things la.. "
3) " after i hv done so much fr her, she does this to me. dunno how to approach me, duno how to talk to me, duno table manners, everyth duno. then y u wana marry her? "
i felt cheated coz i thought that she don like u, coz she said it herself before. Then now she said she has been liking u. i hv made totally wrong gameplan!! and led u into phobia of her.
so since we know how is she like, it means that she wants u to treat her like mum-in-law, not jz some random mother. do everyth like she is ur current mum-in-law, and not future.
but she said tt she cant give u the 'motherly love' coz u already hv a mother.
she noe tt i put in so much effort to make her like u. she herself admit that she was trying her best to like u, and she did.
what she is complaining is, why isnt there any improvements in u whenever meeting?
and the solution is,
START TREATING HER LIKE UR CURRENT MUM-IN-LAW.
Posted by wOoT....!! never u MiNd.. at 5:35 AM
