You want grunge? Here it is.

I had some conversation with my mum at 1030am-1130am this morning.

so we talked about these topics:
1) meeting family issues
2) being 'havoc'
3) about mum vs mum issue
4) acception of my gf
5) how my mum n her mum-in-law can get along so well
6) how to make my mum love my gf
6) accepting criticism in a good way

I prefer typing it down here, coz there are no emotions in words, and u can read this repeatedly as a form of motivation and enlightenment.

lets start!

1) the reason why my mum don allow me to meet ur family is bcz we r not married yet. i told her that ur family would wanna noe who is ur bf or how is he. my mum said that ur parents hv known me for long time and tts enuff. to me, im ok. neutral. but by looking at ur mum, how active she is talking to me, i can reduce my appearance to about once in a while.
no harm about this.

2) about soccer part, nah.... i manage to win this topic. so from now on, watever activities we do together, it will b ok w her, so long as u reach home early.

3) my mum is like this. her mindset is friends at first, but once we are together like now, they are no longer friends but juz normal ppl/ in laws.
u hv to accept her mindset anw.

4) my mum accepts u. the only qn is that , whether can u be like my mum. i will elaborate further later.

5) its a long story. her mum in law is like her. very fussy, like to criticise.
but my mum is very relax. she is also defiant. but she use her defiancy in a good way. watever her mum in law says, she juz take it and laugh to herself. and of coz she juz change to suit her.
this phrase " im very sick n tired of ur mum" , has never been mentioned from her at all throughout her life.
this shows that she can take her mum in law well.

6) for you, do the same. ur also defiant. but use it for her, not against her. my mum said that he criticise u, not to hurt u or scold u. but to change u. she used those words like bitches on u, coz she wanted u to wake up.
anw, i thk ur on the right track. coz u also hv the mindset of juz listening to her n change.

my mum wants us to get married right away w/o public engagement. juz us.
but of coz u can hv ceremony with ur family after that.

the talk went well between me n my mum. i kinda annoyed her n keep asking her why why whywhywhywhy...
so there, this is the truth.

keep this between us, watever between us is alwys a secret. only u in ur fmaily can accept this. bcoz we wanna b with each other for the rest of our life.

to me, everyth is in good hands. ur gonna be like my mum and gonna be mine. ur gonna be my mum's favourite. she cant wait to meet u often after about 2yrs.

Your love

Posted by wOoT....!! never u MiNd.. at 11:27 AM

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